I do not know, in way I do, but you cannot do for him. And eventually, and probably much too late, he will realize what he has lost and what he cannot find by chasing an unreralistic relationship, with someone who does NOT have his best interest at heart.
As difficult as it is, you will have to cut off your R with him for now, so you are not tempted to "wait" forever or try to "fix" everything for him.
Two months. No changes here. No talk of R, M or D, or anything else of substance. Confess I built up expectations over "changing" behavior, but I know she is still moving on with her "selfish" behavior and life.
S7 informs me (in front of her), she is moving into a bigger apartment in Sept. So clearly, I know where her intentions and priorities lie. Not with the M or R or family.