Wife said yesterday that she carry's her phone all the time so that if I call the kids can speak to me at anytime. I am detaching and only want to speak to them when they are going to bed so I can wish them good night for now. I should not call during the day since I'm detaching right?
I just want to hug my kids!!!
I was going to take the kids on a surprise to the Aquarium, but my Wife's mother took her and the kids there. I was upset b/c they didn't go where they said they would go. I told wife that was what I was going to do as a surprise and she said that;s no probably I can take them again. Of course I can. the point is that they didn't go where they said they would go and then wife said my mom wanted to do something nice for her cause her mom noticed that she was so stressed. Wife acted upset that I even mentioned it.
Not sure what is going on with her, but for the first time during this separation I silently wished that her troubled mind would ease.
I do hope that she decides to come home so we can start to peace things back together and become a family again. In the mean time, I joined a gym, got myself a Guitar, and saying hi to strangers just to change things up.
