Still Struggling with a plan!

[hopeOK]

Ok, he means for just us. So that is a positive. He is making plans for just us for the future. I am happy about this.

Hope

Pack your stuff and move out of his head!@!

Take things as they come and build on the positives ... stop focusing on the negative stuff. HE asked you to go on a little get-a-way ... there are numerous people here who would LOVE that.

Yes, you are soooo right ... i Know... but it is so hard. I was thinking yesterday that maybe it is easier for men to go through this kind of situation b/c the woman is naturally one who likes to talk a lot and talk through problems. My H is definitely not a talker & so it feels like it might take forever for him to talk out what he needs to w/o my prompting. OF course I know to wait & let him address it as he is ready but I think him being a man & not good already at talking, especially when that talk is around emotions... I just think it really adds to the time factor and my needed patience!