Would it be ok to text my Ww to follow up on the SD situation?
Or should I just let her deal with it completely and let her come to me.?
HJ
Just caught up on your sitch a bit. I admit I had to laugh about you giving your W advice on setting boundaries because SD was testing her ... seen that same advice but its typically concerning the WAS ....lol. Proving these DB tools are useful in every day interactions ... I have DB's several clients this past year with great results.
To answer your question ... IMHO you handled it well, you appeared to be strong and confident, the man ... allow that to slow cook, if your W needs you for this she will come and ask ... you have to be careful and not appear to pursue nor 'fix' this. I just get the vibe if you try to follow up its not a very good Risk/Reward ratio in this case.
So yeah ... Option #2 is one that comes from strength here.
