Need advice for a WW who left Part 2

[dwh15]

I posted this last night, but I think you had started a new thread.

She will try different techniques to get more money from you. She will be all friendly acting, throw screaming fits, threaten, bully, cry, flirt.....or whatever she thinks will make you buckle. So, take this as a warning.

Thanks Sandi. Yes, I've already seen some of what you mentioned. Be nice one minute, then try and turn on the guilt and anger the next. So far, I've held my ground. My big concern is still having to deal with her once I land a job. I've had 2 interviews just this week and don't think it will be much longer before I get an offer. I know that WW is expecting me to start funneling money to her again when that happens, and I've decided that I will not. I've got no interest in helping her fund her A and continue destroying our family. She'll either have to file herself, or some time within the next 9 months I'll probably do it myself. As I said before, I'm running up against a 20-year M clock where I'm looking at potential permanent spousal support and there is no way I'm allowing that to happen.

So I figure the ride is going to get a whole lot bumpier in the next few weeks. I'm still open to suggestions on best way to handle breaking the news to WW, although I'm not sure it will matter much. I know she's going to be off the rails crazy and angry.