It is amazing to hear all the reflection your wife is going through!! I have to admit that I am a bit envious ... I have doubts my h will ever get to the point of really seeing the damage he has caused & being truly sorry. But I see your journey has been a long one. Way to go for hanging in there!
Thank you hope. It all takes alot of time, that and figuring out to let them breathe a bit so they can start to realize thigns on their own.... telling a person "hey that pot is hot" seems to never work as they are going to grab it anyway ... I found its better just to let them learn, I discovered as awesome as my toolbox is, I can not fix people.
