Hi DBB, I'm OK..I think. I'm playing psychologist to H who has been dumped by OW to go back to her exbf, come to find out this is the fourth time in 2.5 months. Don't get me wrong we have not reconciled and my helping him out will probably end whatever friendship we have right now. After everything I've heard I can't be his friend if he goes back for more abuse from her....it's like helping a drug addict, they need to help themselves and want help. I refuse to sit back and watch him put the needle in the arm again. I know listening to him has helped me to let go to some extent...I still love him, I still want my marriage, we have come to a great level of communication at this point but he hasn't crossed that line of being able to let go of his feelings for OW...he still sees himself as the one for her. Right now he has decided he needs to get his head straight before any decisions are made, he loves us both in different ways. I have gotten to a point were it's time for me to make my own choices. I hope he will make a choice to let go of OW but I'm not counting on it. I will have a clearer head in a few days, I'm heading to Myrtle Beach for the week with some girlfriends. Enough of my psycho life, how are things going with you? Are you feeling any better? How are the kids doing? I hope to hear from you before I leave. I leave on Tues. Return on Sat. Take Care, stacie
