Just an update. Wife pulled up with a U-Haul yesterday and got the rest of her stuff. It is weird pulling into garage and seeing all her bikes gone. Or coming into the house and all her stuff is gone. Seeing pictures of us on the wall or on the piano, all happy. When I pulled in and opened the garage door I pretended like I would see the other car in the garage and all her stuff, like it was just a bad dream. But it is real, oh so real. And yesterday I got her proposal on what she wants out of the divorce, and it is far from fair, or what I think is fair. At this point I don't want to give up on the marriage but now it just seems like it's going to be haggling between our lawyers. How does one show compassion and loving to their spouse thru these difficult and advesorial times?
