I hope you are feeling a bit better today after the conversations w/your h.
I want to point out that you can't rationalize w/an angry, emotional person. You handled the situation well, but do not get into any more conversations w/him about the children's visitation hours until your meeting. He's trying desperately to trip you up and make you look like the bad guy. Things aren't going his way, the children see and hear what's going on, hence their attitudes about stuff. He doesn't want to own up to the fact that he's facing the consequences of his actions so the only person that has to be wrong is you.
No matter what you say or do, in his eyes, it will be wrong. Keep your responses brief, but civil and make copies of everything to protect yourself.
I do hope that you can dig deep this weekend and find some inner peace. He's doing everything in his power to beat you down so that you will say "enough" and give him everything. Please, please stay strong and continue to pray. You have two battles going on and w/God's will, will win them both.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
