Dwh, I myself have been getting the same spew for a few weeks. It's tough! But what matters is that the kids are having fun! My WAW when leaving packed half of the silverware and bath towels. I thought to myself what good is half a set of anything so I packed the remainder up and sent her on her way.
Fast forward a few weeks and I'm a jerk for buying new towels and silverware??? She says it was unnessisary! Haha God forbid I buy something for MY house.
Also as far as the activities go. When I have S4 I always try to have something fun planned. Not to be in a competition. For him. He has been dealing with enough lately and none of it is his fault. So even on my worst day I drag myself out of the house and make myself out on a happy face . I'm apparently rude for that also because she can't afford to do anything? Not my problem... Not his problem... He deserves his childhood. I think it would be better as a family but if this is how it is gonna be, he will at least have some good memories instead of all bad!
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
. I'm apparently rude for that also because she can't afford to do anything? Not my problem... Not his problem... He deserves his childhood. I think it would be better as a family but if this is how it is gonna be, he will at least have some good memories instead of all bad!