Sandi, in addition to the 37 rules, GAL etc how does one get back this respect? Are there certain things that can be done specifically for that? I'll post a more specific version of this q on my thread later, so as not to hyjack ghosts thread.

Best of luck ghost. Limbo is tough.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together