LBS trying to get it right

[25yearsmlc]

Fogg you say I need to get to the position where she feels I am moving on with our without her the difficult thing for me is to know "what is moving on"

Good question. How about Releasing your wife to her "mission"? Let her go. Maybe she will find treasure in her journey, maybe she will see it in you OR maybe not...but you Must let her go..

Not b/c you don't care

but b/c she insists on it and you are listening to & abiding by her demand.

I want to continue to have her and the kids under the same roof where I hope I'm can build a R over time however I have to let go of the current R And M

So what does letting go mean

In some ways it's like seeing your child off to college. They are on a "mission" but you cannot go with them on it. It's a puzzle she has to solve herself, you cannot be standing over her shoulder to move a piece to "Solve it" (FIXING)

she has to do this herself.

Let her work on the puzzle while you find one for yourself. We will call your puzzle, GAL + PMA

and helping you actually LIVE ^^^that