Fogg you say I need to get to the position where she feels I am moving on with our without her the difficult thing for me is to know "what is moving on"
I want to continue to have her and the kids under the same roof where I hope I'm can build a R over time however I have to let go of the current R And M

So what does letting go mean

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.