LBS trying to get it right

[ATPeace]

Huddy I was up till 3 am reading your stich to part 5 you are amazing and have come a long way

So the main question I have is I see a big differnce between how you have been dealing with things and how I have

The conversation between my W and I Flows and it always has sence S we both want to stay in the house and get along for the kids

We both want different end goals

I know if I start detaching and doing less for her and not talking to her this will change the dynamics of my position I fully believe that if I do this and change how she feels about being here then she would not think twice about selling the house

Many of the kind people here have been telling me over and over to move on and I am starting to feel less pain ....they must be getting sick of me not listening fully

I do know I can have no more R conversations with her