Exactly right once again V. I didn't mean to imply I was doing this for WW, or even hoping she would notice. I think I'm finally reaching the understanding and acceptance that the changes I've made and continue to make are for me and my kids. I don't know what happened but just over the last couple of days, it's like something inside clicked. I still think about and miss my W but I'm starting to enjoy life again. I really enjoy time with my kids and my close family. I'm actually excited about the prospect of a new job, and making new friends. And I continue to be involved with my church on an ever increasing basis. I have not totally given up hope that one day we may all be together again as a family. But I'm also realizing that even if that does not happen, everyone will be just fine. I'm adjusting to being a single dad, and am not in any rush to have a new romantic relationship. I want to prioritize my kids for at least the next year or two, and not worry about finding a new partner. When the time is right, that will happen. I have faith that God is watching and will make sure everything turns out how it's supposed to in the end.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.