Sunny I should have set that line long ago! I guess it is time to set it now. I want to save my R I am hopefully being given 10 months to work on me and figure out what I really want. We have agreed if the kids are in school I will not have to move and they start school end of August. So I am being given time. I need to break the co-dependency and see if this is what I truly want instead of needing it. I need to keep pushing forward. I work tomorrow so I will not text unless he texts first. He is going fishing with his friend and we will have no kids tomorrow so I may honestly just stay home and relax after working so much this week! It is actually what I WANT TO DO! I will make sure to stay positive and not text throughout the night also. Just get on here read threads and watch you tube videos!