I believe at some point in my sitch, I couldn't answer that question honestly. I know I was always looking for that magic switch to change her.

Now - I only see this as a way for me to move forward and hopefully a way to have the kids live with a better me. (I know that sounds a lot like a BS statement, but it is really how I feel).

Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015