DBB, You always give me good advice, thank you. Last night we talked again...he wasn't as positive with me and I'm really not sure how much more I can listen to when it comes to OW. He misses her, I understand. He's been through a lot in the last couple months (what about me). I feel bad for her, she made me feel this, she made feel that. Everything he says, I know (and think he knows) are temporary feelings....like all the compliments he gets from her, how she makes him feel good about himself. One day he's pyschologicaly on... can explain things to me rationaly (and understand it), the next day he is back pedaling (to a certain extent). I know he'll probably call tonight but I'm feeling real low, I don't want to hear anymore how he misses her and how heartbroken he is. I think he just wants to see if she'll pursue him..that would prove to him how much he is wanted by her, this would make him happy. Here I'am wanting to make him happy....I'm lending him my car to drive to Virginia so he can go rock climbing with friends and get away from everything. I think I did this stupid thing because I need a vacation from him..I need him to go so I can get my sanity back. Once again always the helper, always there for him...always trying to make him happy. Somebody shoot me . Enough about my stupid life. How are things going with you? Are the kids doing well? I hope your hanging in there. Take Care, stacie