*need help*

[barbie7]

There's a lot that happened before he came back while he was here and after he left that I didn't put on here but you try to save a marriage,family & a soul and to get told it doesn't matter how I am or what I do I can't make him happy is just sad..they've been together since about the beginning of march excluding the few days he was here and was faithful so maybe the affair hasn't had time to run it's course..everybody thinks after we go to court and the child support and spousal support are taken out of his checks and he can't buy everything for her anymore that they'll start not getting along..we shall see..they work together,live together with her ex bf and are always up each others butts I even know he gets fusses at at his job for being on the phone with her all day..they are already making future plans together and the girls said she bosses him around all the time..oh well I'm nothing like her and don't want to be like her so if that's what makes him happy so be it but I really don't think they will last that long..he was miserable with her after 3 months last time..he said bc she would always hit him and she was already talking marriage..now he says he was never miserable with her..he says things then says he didn't and he acts totally different when he isn't around her..idk anymore all I know is he has said and done things I don't think I could get over..shame on me for having one affair years ago but I am actually remorseful and repentant for my mistake..he has had 3 affairs with 3 different women not counting the ones over the years he wanted to have affairs with and he excuses these past 2 affairs by saying he was unhappy and wanted a divorce anyway and he doesn't feel bad qt all about doing it..nobody knows who this man is anymore..he has signs of being wayward,depressed,MLC and just being plain WEIRD..think its best for me and the girls to just let it go and move on after the D