Ok so here is an update and I'm really not sure how to feel about it or how to handle it. My H decided it was time to "take a break" from OW. He says he know it's lust and not love. He has even read the article "Great Expectation", circled some of the pertenant information. My problem is I want to be happy by this step but I can't seem to manage it. After my H had the conversation with the OW about not seeing each other or calling he came to my house and cried about everything, including her. Remember we haven't spoken about getting back together but H stated he would never know what he truly wants while seeing OW....if he is seeing OW then he's not seeing me and he misses me. I'm listening patiently even when he cries about OW but how much do I listen too? How much of myself am I supposed to give? and why aren't I a little bit happy about this big step? I don't get it.
DBB, I hope you had a good evening, take care stacie
