Gab,

You are asking the wrong questions here.

The most important question here is:

Do you want to stay married?

If you say, "yes"....

...then STOP listening to your wayward wife and truly listen to DBers here. We will steer you in the right direction.

Your W doesn't care about you AT THIS MOMENT. All she cares about is her cake and the ability to continue eating it. Her pushing dating on you is a way to deflect her guilt and "force" you to do the same so she can 'feel' better about her affair.

Don't you see how silly and twisted her so-called "logic" is right there??!!!

Fer cryin' outloud....

LOSE THE FEAR FOR REAL!!!

Get your balls back from your W's purse.

If your W told you to jump out of a window from a 10-story building, would you do it knowing that it meant death for you?

Hell No! That's right....

Same thing with her pushing you to "date" other people. How whack is that?!

Here is your to-do list:

-Get up from the fetal position
-Become the best DAD to the kids
-Be active outside of the house
-STOP all R talks/all ILYs
-STOP trying to "win" W back (she's out of the door already)
-Start posting in other threads for you will learn more by reciprocating
-Join 1 or 2 groups that resonates with you in your community (hiking, Dungeons & Dragons, whatnot) through MeetUp

Time to stop sucking the pacifier, ditch it, and grow a pair.


Last edited by Wonka; 07/30/15 11:28 PM.