DBB, I'm sorry to hear whats going on but remember it hasn't been that long. My H was very happy when he moved out and for a good three months + after but I can see his unhappiness now. Today he stated that for himself, me and the twenty years he was married he needs to "take a break" from OW to figure out what he wants. He also stated he knew what he was doing was selfish and self-centered (six months later). Now that should be a break through but I'm not jumping up and down for joy. I keep remembering what you said "no expectations", thank you for that because now I can look at this and say to myself... that this is good...but I'm not expecting anything to come of it, time will tell. I can say I'm prepared for anything, my part of the paperwork is completed and ready for filing when and if that time comes. I know what your going through and it will be awhile before you can look at things in a different light. As for W she may be happy now but it may not be that way next month. The hard part is going on with your life without her and making yourself and your children happy. Hang in there your doing well but it's still a long road...I'm here if you need to talk. Take care of yourself, stacie
