WAW two months ago from a 15 year marriage. She petitioned for divorce and I have 30 days to respond. children .... So LOST.. Relief to anger to confusion.. In hindsight I Was not the best husband, in some regard, but the threat of divorce truly TRULY woke me up. Contact is minimal and brief.. Suspect a possible EA, but unsure if that is my own issue. Is it ok to ask? If it were the case I would likely concede.. Don't know... Have done nothing crazy yet like beg or plead yet.. Just sent way too many cards... DR on the way.

Needing some concrete advice.. Your work is cut out for you.. Give me a next step. I understand self help (activities / exercise / be happy) but I believe if I do nothing the marriage ends!

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