You can feel SORRY for him - it must be terrible to wake up and discover you made such a mess out of your family - but definitely don't feel GUILTY. He fired you from the job of wife, remember? And he sure didn't make any effort to come see his girls, both before and after you moved. HE needs to do the work to win his way back into the good graces of you three. He likely won't be up to the task, but getting the divorce done has nothing to do with whether you give him the chance to do those things. The divorce is just business.
