DBB, I'm just so tired, I haven't got the energy. My kids don't even want him back, "He has sacrificed his life for everyone, now it's time for his happiness". Whatever.. As for your W hang in there, like you said it has been less than a month (better than six). I know the pain of just wanting to hearing their voice...it will get better. It's been six months for me and although I still want to hear his voice...I'm getting used to it when I don't. Take care, stacie