The lack of atttaction, may be partly script, however,for the WW or WAW it is mostly truth. It does not mean you are ugly or have no sex appeal to someone else. It means for her the attraction is gone. For a woman, it is tied into her respect.....or lack of respect for him as a man.
To answer your question about over time winning her back, you first get her respect and attraction. The rest will follow.....unless she is too screwed up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
