This is not your problem to fix, honey.You can tell him that anything's possible in the future, but right now you need the divorce finished (let's face it, you really couldn't afford to start this process from scratch again in a few years, could you?). If he wants to fix things he can prove himself to you AFTER the divorce. (and listen, you are COMPLETELY within your rights not to want him back!). Be careful you don't get sucked back in; let him give you a year of living sober, proving himself, no other women etc before you even CONSIDER reconciling. (And that's what a GOOd guy who GENUINELY wanted to make amends would be willing to do. Don't settle for anything less.)
