Hi

We are not sleeping together or having sex any more this stopped at the time of Separation

I think what I ment was I do not have a say in making her change her mind sure I have a choice in what happens in my life

I realise my current M is finished

I suppose what I was thinking was if it would be possible to try and build things again with her over a period of a few years

I will keep working with the rules and I guess time will be the deciding factor

Sure if she decides to move things further with another relationship with another man then I would have to reassess things

Right now it feels like my life is over ....even tho I have four beautiful kids I just do not want to invisige life in two separate houses away from W

But I am out tonight meeting lots of new people at a social group so hopefully this will cheer me up

Thanks

Gary


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.