4, let me ask you a harsh question. Why are you chasing a guy that's cheated on you at least 6 times in 13 years? You are worth way more than that. Your daughter is worth more than that.
I am in no way saying, don't try and salvage this R, that's not my choice to make. But I am saying examine why you think you need to live that way, why is this the relationship you have chosen. Chances of H changing are slim, and you aren't in charge of whether he does or doesn't. But you can be in charge of you. Zues has already given you the basics, take back your power. Be in charge of your own emotional well being. Make a plan for your financial well being. Detach. GAL. Become a strong independent woman, for yourself, for your daughter. And then examine where he fits into your life. If you decide to continue to live that way, at least you'll be making a choice from a place of power and not fear.
