LBS trying to get it right

[Ontheup]

Ghost

The thing is how long do you stick it out? You can do what ever you like. Stay together as friends for the rest of your lives but is that a life you want to live?
I'm probably not the best person to offer advice here as my wife was having an affair so my circumstances are different.
My point is though I couldn't have stuck it out for much longer the way it was before I found out. We got on very well did stuff as a family but the intimate connection between us had gone a long time ago. We were just house mates. Its no life to lead

If you are determined to push on then, as per DBing and advice from others you need to let her go, stop with any neediness, stop with any R talks and be the best you can be for your kids. Re-read Sandis rules.
Its a very tall order while you live together as she isn't actually missing anything. You're still there every day but maybe who knows she might change her mind.

Non of us on here wanted to sell our houses, tear families and friendships apart but those were the hands we were dealt and yes I see my daughter 50% of the time now. Thing is I actually have better quality time with her now as i make the most of it.