Hang in. At least he talking to you and about R stuff. It is frustrating, but you sort of know how he feels, even if it is not what you want to hear. W I have not had an hour of conversation cumulatively in forever. I've talked to her for about two minutes today and yesterday. And certainly no talk of R or M, except her saying, "I'm not interested in working on the M."
And you tell him what plans YOU and D have made for the Birthday and he is welcome to attend. And do NOT try to "fix" things between them. She needs to tell him how she feels, so he will hear it.
And I wonder everyday if she is going to call and then I am disappointed if she does not or if we talk for less than 2 minutes. So, we cannot obsess over that.
Like now, she just called and talked to the kids. God, I miss her.
Lots of questions and no answers. So do for you and D; it is all you can do.
If you are interested, go to Piecing and read "Piece and Quiet" and "Broken Pieces II" if you want to read about my situation.
