LBS trying to get it right

[ATPeace]

Hi I realise this marriage is over it has been extremely hard for me to come to terms with this and I still cannot quite believe there is nothing I can do right now to try to turn things around.

So what are my next steps ??

We are living together and will continue to do something whilst we are getting along. We have four children 2 years old 12year old 14 year old and 17 year old

What should I be doing over the coming months to to try to build on a new relationship with W is there anything ?

She tells me that she is not attracted to me anymore and that it was going over the last few years


We do get along with each other I am just not sure that I can manage to adjust our relationship from married to friends ...tho I realise right now I do not have any say in it

Is it harder or easier to D'bust when living together

Is it even possible for an attraction to be formed again ?

I would be greatful for any advice ....I do not want to move on sell the house and split up our family if we do this then I will see even less of my children so will she and I am thinking if I am lonley now it will be much more lonley in seperate houses

Many thanks

Gary