I seem to be obsessing about what is going on with the lawyer situation. It is driving me batty not knowing anything.

1. I call my L to see what is happening
2. I don't call and let him call me when there is a development

Of course I won't ask my W what is going on. She is suing me and I am not lifting a finger to help anything. I don't bring it up, don't mention it, act as is when I am around her. Just like the AP, I don't mention it, don't allude to it, nothing.
That has gotten better as I have gotten a bit stronger, I used to mention it now I never do. One piece of intel I did get from a mutual friend is that the AP still lives with her W and family for financial reasons. Whatever.

Kids back in town for the weekend, dinner with them tonight and then I get them Friday Sat and Sunday. I am thrilled with that and am making plans for the YMCA and maybe a movie or a play date. We always have the trampoline.

I have to buy a grill for the back yard. My old one finally wore out. Now, if I could just get one in my car!

Anyways - always full of questions, never sure of what is happening, just trying to keep it moving forward.

GAL front - played a great round of tennis last night with a new friend. I have not played tennis is years! It was a really good work out. I will try to get my kids interested now that I know a good place to play.

My love and appreciation goes out to every member of this fabulous board. What would I do without you?


Was made a better person by DB'ers