Hi Stacie,
Thanks for dropping by my post. ((((hugs)))) We all need them on our really bad days. Our sitchs are a lot alike.
My H is living with the OW, we've been married 24 years. I really don't know my H anymore either, he has changed into a selfish, egotistical..... I felt we had a good marriage and a good relationship, great sex. He said something was missing, and a thousand other MLC lines. Our children are grown adults and we have 2 grandchildren. They are all devestated by this event. It is very painful to see the effects this has had on our grandchildren, they are 5 and 6.

Sorry for rambling on in your post. Hang in there and take care of yourself and your children. Do something special for yourself.
Our aliens will someday realize what they have given up, and will feel some pain. I doubt they will ever feel as much pain as we have felt, but they will feel some.
Take care


Anney