1. He wants to talk about it and get it out, even if only on his own terms. 2. I need to know & to know if he's repentant about it. 3. Once we get past that part, forgiveness and "piecing" can fully happen.
4. He recently changed his passwords and so he probably knows that I've been in his stuff. Not sure how to answer when he asks me about that...


Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?