DBB, I hope it ends sooner then later, but it doesn't mean it will...I feel a person can only pretend to be something their not for so long. Of coarse the contradiction there is maybe he has been pretending with me all these year?? I agree with the interactions, it's a contradiction...I feel when my H and I get along and we're nice to each other he does much better in his life because he thinks everything is ok..we can get divorced and she will still be my best friend. Reminder this is not something I think, H has actually said that we could still be best friends if we got divorced because he will always love me and he will always want to take care of me!!!! Talk about a contradiction.....AHHH, this is driving me insane, just reading what I wrote makes me want to cry. Well DBB it looks like it's a hard night for both of us. Sorry that your going through a rough time but maybe tomorrow will be a brighter day. Take Care, stacie B
