She got mad because my 27d got to the hospital first and they asked for an emergency contact number. My daughter used her name. After surgery the nurse asked if I wanted to keep 27d as contact person. I said that I wanted to add my wife. Wife says no it ok to leave it the way it is. After getting home my wife text me and said You and 27d knew I was coming to the hospital. Would it have been such a problem to add my name to the emergency contact list. She also made a comment that daughter was taking over. it was almost as if she was jealous of our daughter. I told her that I was in the bathroom when they asked for a emergency contact person and our daughter used her name because she was the only family there at the time. I told her that once they told me I tried to include her name and I did not purposefully try to exclude her.