DBB, Your right it could be a good thing but he isn't exactly alone with his thoughts or is actions he's with OW and has tuned everbody and everything out. I'd like to think that the more time that goes by.. the more engrossed in her he gets... means that faster he will snap back into reality but like you I'm trying to have no expectations. It's hard to beleve this is the same man I married...I love him but I don't even like the person he has become. I'm not sure which is harder seeing your S everyday or not seeing them at all. You still have hope, she stopped by two days in a row....that would be good in my book. Take care, write later, stacie
