Please listen to Acc. What he is saying is spot on. We have all been through the "crazy" stage where you feel like what is being said on this forum couldn't possibly work. BUT it does!!! This is one time you can say "but". Give yourself some time and if you REALLY love your wife, you will give her what she is asking for. Some space. Please listen to the vets on this forum, they are here to help.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom Acc. I have a WAH and have learned so much from your last two posts.
Gabs,
Love yourself and love your wife - give yourself the gift of time and your wife the gift of space and keep journaling here and ask for advice before you take any action.