I'm confused. I thought most of the people on here have spouses who are having affairs. I can only say what I can say or do what I can do. I can't force him to leave the OW. If I say to him it's her or me he'll choose her because like you said he's addicted to her.
Earlier you told me not to tell him to leave the house. What are my other options? I don't want to live in an open marriage.
