Newbie needing support and advice

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Today was interesting. I met with the mediator by myself prior to our meeting jointly next week. I came with my time share schedule options ready. The reason I don't want our current schedule to continue is because it is too choppy once school begins. She starts the meeting by stating that this will be easy since we already have a schedule agreed upon. H met with her yesterday and must have told her we were going to continue doing what we were doing. When I explained the schedule and my concerns she agreed that it won't work for a 4 year old. The challenge now is giving him "fair" time with him and dealing with his work schedule.

I am worried this is not going to go over well and will set any progress made so far back. If there is any. It's just he has been really friendly and way less angry lately. I know I have to do what is in the best interest of my son and not worry about that.

Any thoughts on this? How to approach the change in the meeting in a "solution oriented" way?