There are a lot of interesting thoughts and insights in this thread!

I recognize many of these attitudes from my WH. Lots of weird statements and I think he said it best when he said his feelings and thoughts are changing all the time.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17