I'm reading a book about Codependency. Hopefully it'll help me to detach and GAL. It's tough. We've been together 28 years and grew up with each other. As far as living together, i'm still on the fence. We've been doing it since the BD which was 6 months ago. We get along great otherwise and he's been discreet about his phone calls with her so it's not in my face. If he moves to the basement, there will be more separation than if he's in the spare room. On the other hand, he may tell me he's moving out when he gets home. Everything is up in the air right now.
