I agree with Cali.

You do not have a job, your resources are reducing and you need them for your life and that of your children. The payment is also pending and not yet yours in your hand. That's none of WW business now.

You haven't yet got to decision maker 3 choices, decide if and when you get there, it's far too soon to consider what may be.

Time to use broken record technique.

"I am saying I am struggling too and I am not comfortable promising you anything."

Expect an emotional blackmail technique or two, but stand firm. My WH is the same demands for money. I pay only what I owe, no more and no less.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 07/29/15 10:53 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW