Thanks Fogg, we'll see. At least I get to feel like my strong stance is being consistently held and that it includes her. I see both the power of Wonka's word choices and the DB principles in the email creation.

Why does my W get to decide that co-parenting isn't an option? Just because she said so in an email?

DB principles say figure out what you want and feel you deserve. Communicate that in a strong and respectful manner.

Wonka's principles - don't write what you think and feel, write what will get you the outcome that you want. That was rather mind blowing.


Last edited by PigPen; 07/29/15 10:15 PM.

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