Well the kids finally crashed and burned tonight. I think this is the first time I have seen my tuff 15D cry. Both children fully believe their father doesn't care about them anymore...the only person in his life that he cares 2cents about is OW. This is great, here I go again trying to save the little relationship the kids have left with him. My question why is this up to me? I won't lie to them but I did try to explain to them that their father is going through a crisis in his life and hopefully he will snap out of it soon, they need to be patient and express their feelings to him. What else can I say, they know about OW but he never calls to see how they are, it's like he has dropped off the face of the earth, they probably won't see or hear from him until next Thursday night, this is just so out of character. Right now he promises them everything on the weekends he has them, then lets them down...spends time on the computer, phone or leaves them for several hours alone. If this is a MLC will it ever end, will he wake up before he alienates everyone in his life? Just needed to vent, stacieB