It may be like that for quite sometime, that's why you really need to detach and GAL, it will get easier but there will be bumps on the road, that's why 180s are so important, so you can become, INDEPENDENT and CONFIDENT in YOURSELF!!!
Do what's best for YOU and your kids, let her fall, let her stumble and don't pick her up, she will come to you if SHE needs you, it has always been HER choice to be with you, not yours.
Its really hard to detach, we are all doing it with you, we are all here for each other, so feel free to vent, send us a message, etc. But leave her ALONE!!!
