Quote: The only hope I have, which isn't much is he can't say the words "I want a divorce",
Believe me, from the guy who has trouble seeing any positives; this is HUGE. I suggest he still does not know what he wants. W seemed certain, talking about legal matters, etc., then two weeks ago in C, she said, "I don't need to be thinking about this right now (D), but I'll know when I'm ready." It seems she is still on that path, but the idea she is not ready, is something. I know I cannot base full hope on that, but it is better than the alternative.
I know it is difficult, but do your best to NOT talk about the R.
Quote: The question I have is how do you turn off twenty years and so many memories, hopes and dreams? I just don't know.
Again, if you get this one, let me know?
Hang in and do for you. Feel better about yourself, impossible I know, but you will feel better about whatever comes your way.
