Thanks Cadet. I am employing DB techniques 100% now. I emailed my family and asked them to do the same since they were all close with her too. Every day seems like an eternity.
T:22 M:17 Me: 44YO Her: 42YO 1 son 13YO BD 5/16/15 Her affair w/ OW 3/15-7/15 Her: ILYBNILWY