Bwriter, You wrote that you don't know how to have a relationship with her right now? I don't know your situation, but how often do you talk to your W? Are they pleasant conversations, anything about R? It doesn't seem like I go a day without tears and it has been almost six months..he's w/ OW tonight and last night (probably for the next two weeks) until he has the kids, it kills me to think about it. I think having no relationship with him at this point will be difficult, but getting sucked into his hell has been harder. My kids are old enough to build their own relationship with him, it will be harder for him because I've always been the go-between for all of them. Take Care, s
